Be Just Who You Are and Be Proud ^_^

Have you ever thought of what your life would be like
if you were a different person as you are right now?

Dont you ever wish you were someone else? Did you?

Are you contented with what you are right now?
With what you have and tend to give?

Do you always have thoughts of the future?
Of what you will become, where to go and what to have?

Are you good enough as compared to others?

Do you think you are special? That you can be?

Do you know what to do with your life?

You think you have found your purpose?

In what way do you tend to live your life?
Do you spend the days of your life to the fullest?

Were you happy?..Always or never?

Do you think love is stupid?

People are outageous and pathetic? Obnoxious and fools?

Do you love what you are? Do you care what others think of you?

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Oh well, so many questions. Things that could just
confuse you or rattle your mind of whether these applies to you.
But I do believe that in order to assess yourself,
you should ask. You know, to try to weigh things up.
And to measure how you react to these kind of inquiries.

These questions trouble me sometimes in ways I just
couldnt explain. They would just pop out of my head.
And whether or not I may be able to sort these out,
it doesnt matter. Well, actually, it does matter.
It's just that I dont usually dwell on these kind of things
even if I tend to catch myself getting drowned from all these.

All or most of these questions, things interrelated to it
can just in one way or another either change your life
if you have been moved by thoughts of it...
or bug not only your thoughts but the way you face your life
after realizing if you really found your true meaning.

The prime reason why I thought of having this to post
is the impact (well, not so great impact but there's something that had
just moved me..hehe) that I got and felt from a song
sung by Natasha Bedingfield (her songs are just exceptional..haha
and I am really starting to like her...haha)
It is entitled "Freckles" and hope you like it.

Nevermind the video...they're just bunches of her photos...
Just load it and listen to the song...It's cool...hehe x_x

FRECKLES - Natasha Bedingfield

I used to care so much about what others think about
Almost didn't have a thought of my own
The slightest remark would make me embark
On the journey of self doubt
But that was a while ago
This girl has got stronger
If I knew then what I know now
I would have told myself don't worry any longer it's okay

Cause a face without freckles is like a sky without stars
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make you beautiful, lovable, valuable,
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who you are

Who you are
Who you are
Who you are

I wondered if I could trade my body with somebody else in magazines
With the whole world full at my feet
I phantom worthy and would blame my failures on the ugliness I could see
When the mirror looked at me
Sometimes I feel like the little girl who doesn't belong in her own world
But I'm getting better
And I'm reminding myself

Cause a face without freckles is a sky without stars
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make you beautiful, lovable, valuable,
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who you are

Reflecting who you are
Reflecting who you are
Hmmm
Whoooooo whoa hmmmm oooooo

Cause a face without freckles is a sky without stars
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make you beautiful, lovable, valuable,
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who you are

Against All Odds... x_X

I am sick...so sick...bohooo!...I dont really feel well and yet here I am trying to put up something just to make it up to this long-been-taken-for granted blog... ;)

Right now, my mind's really a blur and I just cant think of anything that's kind of useful to share with.... Something with a substance, that is...My creative juices arent just flowing and I can barely utter a word due to my sorethroat...huhuhu... :(

But there's something that's been bugging me concerning "blogs"...Doing or making up a blog....and how it relates to men and women. I am really so curious...and to patch things up...I just tried to put them up in questions...not giving myself a hard time thinking what is it really that's been buzzing through my brain...

If some of you can just explain or have your reactions on these, better be specific and clear in explaining both of the sides. The positive and the negative of course. Biased folks are not allowed...Just kidding...It'll be so much fun I think... x_x

1. Who are more subjective and/or objective when it comes to their posts/topics on their blogs?

2. Do women bloggers always pour out their emotions and even their souls to their blogs?

3. Do you have to be emotional or passionate just to accomplished managing your blogs?

4. Are men bloggers fond of copying other folks' contents not to mention those who are paid to post or review posts or things things like that?

5. Are men bloggers, mostly that is,...just copying other folks' contents?

6. What are the top 3 things or topics do men and women cater to their blogs?

7. Who are more explicit, mature, realistic, consistent, open-minded, vocal, honest and convincing with their blogs? Men or women?

8. Are women bloggers greater in number than men bloggers? Does it matter?

9. Who are more effetive bloggers?

10. Is it cool to have a lot of blogs?...One from here, another there...and so on... :>

Ami Merci (beaucoup) (Thank You, My Friend)

Well, this is something that I just made up....hmmm...a long time ago?..I just cant remember when...but just the time when I felt so appreciative of my friends...haha...(drama/bading mode) or something like...i dont have much "worthwhile" things to do...hahaha

I am not really such a good poet or a writer of some sort...all I do is express myself...voice out my thoughts...and whatever that's buzzling inside my mind...I blurt it out in words...just simple ones...I am not the sort that uses "flowery" words to create pieces...


I am not a fan of W. Shakespeare....wahahaha...sssshhhh....What matters to me...is I may be able to describe...what my thoughts and emotions are trying to make others see...Now let me share to you...something that I want to make known to all my frends out there...naks...hahaha...wala lng.....haha

Just The Way You Are
(wala na ko maisip..suggest da beh..lol)

I'VE MET YOU IN A WAY
STRANGER THAN ANY OTHER DAY.
YOU CAME BY ME
THE TIME WHEN I DIDNT SEE;
A MIRACLE, I CAN SAY.
AND WHAT WE'RE GONNA HAVE...
IT'LL BE - COME WHAT MAY.

A FRIEND SO DEAR TO ME;
HAVING YOU IS LIKE SOMETHING
I ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO SEE.
LIFE HAS NEVER BEEN SO GOOD
YOUR PRESENCE LIGHTENS UP THE MOOD.
NO WORDS COULD EVER DEFINE
WHEN ALL THE PLEASURE IS MINE.
FRIENDS MAY COME AND GO
THAT IS WHAT I TRULY KNOW.
BUT SINCE YOU'RE NOW A PART OF ME
OUR HEARTS WILL BE THE ONE TO SEE.
FOREVER A FRIEND... FOR ME YOU WILL BE.

A JESTER YOU ARE
MAKING ME SMILE AND EVEN LAUGH
BUT I KNOW DEEP INSIDE
YOU'RE A PERSON WHO'S SO TOUGH.
LONELY YOU MAY BE
THAT WAY YOU CAN COUNT ON ME.

ONE OF THE NICEST PERSON I KNOW;
NO PRETENSIONS AND LIES,
AND ALL THE SINCERITIES YOU SHOW.
YOU ARE ONE OF A KIND
SHARING YOU EVERYTHING, I WOULDNT MIND
JUST AS LONG AS YOU STAY
SO KIND LIKE THOSe ANGELS WHO PRAY;
SO GOOD THE WAY YOU ARE
LOVE AND PEACE WILL NEVER BE THAT FAR.

FULL OF PASSION - THAT IS WHAT I KNOW OF YOU
ALWAYS ENJOYING THE THINGS THAT YOU DO.
LIKE A MUSIC THAT'S FULL OF LIFE,
SHOWING ALL THE WAY TO YOUR SOUL;
SO I ALWAYS HOPE AND PRAY
THAT YOU'D HAPPILY MEET YOUR GOAL.
A FRIEND, INDEED; THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE
ALWAYS AND FOREVER, EVEN IF I AM THIS FAR.

I HAVE FOUND A FRIEND IN YOU
A PERSON I CANT AFFORD LOSING ,TOO.
SO NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO
WHEREVER YOU MAY BE
I'M JUST HERE FOR YOU
WHENEVER YOU NEED ME TOO.

To All My Fwends...^_^

I am not in the "emo" mood right now. Dont ever think about it...lol... But I kind of have this feeling of...hmmm..what you call this?..haha...Anyway, since I was a kid...It has been my hobby to collect "quotable quotes". May it be on leadership, love, family, friendship, for inspiring others, motivating one's self and things like that... I can just sometimes find myself going over my collections if I tend to have this feeling of emptiness or loneliness (I know the Bible is much more powerful, but having to read all or most of the quotes that I have gathered just gives me some strength and reason to smile...again...) and during the times when I cant seem to find anything useful to do. lol!.. x_x

Now here are some of my favorite quotes on friendship. Pick one or more and try to share it with your friends. I'm sure they'll love you for it and that simple act will always be remembered.

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Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another.
— Eustace Budgell (1711)


The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend.
— Henry David Thoreau

Best friends are the siblings God chose not to give us.
— Unknown Wise Person

A best friend is someone who loves you when you forget to love yourself.
— Unknown Wise Person

Friends are the angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have
trouble remembering how to fly.


My friend is one . . . who takes me for what I am.
— Henry David Thoreau

It is perhaps one of the best achievements to become friends with your worst enemies and one of the worst disasters to become enemies with your best friends.
— Philippos

Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet.
— Chinese Proverb

Friendship makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity
by dividing and sharing it.
— Cicero (44 B.C.)

The language of Friendship is not words, but meanings. It is an intelligence
above language.
— Henry David Thoreau

Do you know what friendship is . . . it is to be brother and sister;
two souls which touch without mingling, two fingers on one hand.
— Victor Hugo

In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
— Martin Luther King, Jr.

The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.

— Abraham Lincoln

Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.
— Al Pacino in the movie The Godfather, Part II (1974)

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
— Arabian Proverb

It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.
— Mahatma Gandhi

There are people who pay attention to the weaknesses of their friends;
that is to no avail. I have always closely watched and profited from the strengths of my adversaries.
— Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their intellects. A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
— Oscar Wilde

There are people who pay attention to the weaknesses of their friends;
that is to no avail. I have always closely watched and profited from the strengths of my adversaries.
— Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their intellects. A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
— Oscar Wilde

Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another:
"What! You, too? I thought I was the only one.
— C. S. Lewis

A man should choose a friend who is better than himself.
— Chinese proverb

A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud.
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friends are an aid to the young, to guard them from error; to the elderly, to attend to their wants and to supplement their failing power of action; to those in the prime of life, to assist them to noble deeds.
— Aristotle

A true friend will go to hell for you. An enemy will certainly try to send you there.

He who has a thousand friends
Has not a friend to spare,
While he who has one enemy
Shall meet him everywhere.
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

To know someone here or there with whom you feel there is an understanding in spite of distances or thoughts unexpressed-that can make of this earth a garden. - GOETHE

We are not friends because of the laughs we spend but the tears we save. I don’t want to be near you for the thoughts we share but the words that we never have to speak. I will never miss you because of what we do but what we are together.

-NIKKI GIOVANNI

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.” John 15-12-15

untitled... x_x

It's when you age up that you tend to realize
how far have you been gone...
what you actually accomplished...
and if you ever did made the things you need to
and ought to be doing...

It's the time when thoughts of whether you were happy
from all of those years that passed...
whether you were able to satisfy yourself
and of course, those that you care and love the most...

Reality checked and you discovered
that so many things have changed....
from those petty stuffs you indulged yourself in
up to those big decisions that you made...

Now why is it that we...
even though been bugged by these thoughts...
remain to be just the person that we used to be...
we know we must change and its for the better...
but we still tend to hold on
to those that we know
are not just good enough?

So what does it really takes
for us to make a move?
and does the motive of changing
limits only to one's self?
does it not extend to changing
not only the ways of an individual...
but also for the whole humanity itself?

We change for the reason
that we no longer get what we want
by staying just the way we were...
but change is ought not to be the reason
for just satisfying one's needs or wants...
change comes from the thought...
that you do it for the general welfare.

Then when is the best time to make the move?
Is it after we are diagnosed of some serious disease?
we lost a loved one due to our vices and the like?
Or maybe just the time when we feel
that we are no longer living in a world
that was intented for humans?

The time to make a change
doesnt need the "best" timing to make it up.
change can never wait...
It is something for us to do and keep doing.
An effort that we should have done
a very long time ago
up to the very present....

How soon is now?
Change calls for the action...
Are we there yet?!
It's never too late if we start doing it now.
The end is near...
Should we wait for the moment
that all we need is change...
but life doesnt have it...anymore...